“We were dating long distance almost the whole time we were together. He was stationed in Afghanistan all last year. So this July I decided to take the plunge, to move here and get married.” I found Patsy Kowasic at the Starbucks in Watertown during her lunch break. This is the most patriotic coffee shop I’ve ever seen. The baristas just ordered aprons that arrived today to show which employees are military spouses. Patsy says she’s close with the other employees who are also military spouses, because they share that same experience.